Life is ironic. There are so many nice girls looking for the right guy. On the other hand, there are also a large number of guys who want to impress a girl they like, but never make a move. Somehow, a big inertia force is dragging these guys behind. They are too shy and not comfortable to take action. They doubt themselves and fear rejection. They frequently resent themselves for not having the gut to move. But some of them tried to learn and change themselves. They learned how to impress a girl, how to get a girl to like them and then how to make her fall in love. They learned from their mistakes. They learned from their own and others’ experiences. When they figured out what works and what doesn’t, their life is changed forever. I am one of those shy guys who finally overcame these inertia and get a gorgeous girl I want. So let’s see, how I did it and how you can too.
Most of the shy guys like us live in our comfort zone and too hesitant to go out of it. The sad truth is if we can’t expand our comfort zone, we would end up wondering how to impress a girl and still can’t make her fall in love. By staying in the comfort zone, we are depriving ourselves of joy and fulfillment which can be attained through winning a girl’s heart. Although we feel the fear, we should do it anyway to enjoy the manhood to its fullest extent.
So how would we start stepping out of our comfort zone? The best advice I can give you is to take baby steps first, then grow steadily. It doesn’t matter it is small or large improvement, you need to develop. A small success will give you encouragement to try a bigger one. And like the snow ball effect, you will soon get enough skill to impress a girl you love. You will no longer need to ask how to impress a girl. Instead other guys will approach to learn from you.
Ok, let’s take some practices to overcome your shyness. Next time, when you go out and meet a beautiful girl on street, make sure you have eye contact with her, at least a little longer than you normally would. Give her a smile, you may get her smile in return. If not, don’t worry much. Just do it more. Later try to start a conversation with a girl at your school, work or gym. Whether the conversation is short or long is not important. Whether she is pretty or not also doesn’t matter. The important thing is to initiate conversations with girls. This will make you feel more comfortable when dealing with opposite sex. It will add courage to you when you talk with gorgeous girl. Don’t worry to ask for her phone number. Just do it. Your comfort zone will expand along with your actions. And soon the uncomfortable become the natural and you will become more confident in yourself. So take baby steps one by one and grows, and you will be able to impress a girl you like.
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