I think it’s safe to say that women like to talk. They talk when they’re in groups with friends, and then can go home and talk on the phone for more hours. Well, gentlemen if you don’t like to talk you’d better change that quickly because if you know how to talk to girls, you can quickly impress a girl and make her fall in love.
So if you ask me how to talk to girls, I would advise you to participate, listen, tell her things and allow her tell you things. Let’s take a closer look at each of those things, and see how easy it is to impress girls by talking with them.
Just do it.
If you want to impress a girl by talking, you’ll have to participate in conversations with her on a regular basis. You actually need to prepare your mind to have 5, 10, or 15-minute talks with your chosen lady. Plan on using the first moments you spend with her just talking – engaging her in conversation.
If you’re somewhat quiet or talking just isn’t your thing you’re going to have to step outside of your comfort zone here. You get to know girls by spending time with them, and while you can a lot through nonverbal communication, most knowledge comes through verbal communication.
Physical presence during a conversation is only the beginning to impressing a girl. You have to actively listen. All this means is you have to let her know that you’re involved in the conversation. You do this by acknowledging that you hear her, and sometimes asking questions about what she said.
For example, if she says, “I was really tired Saturday.” You can show her you’re listening by saying the following: “I’m sorry to hear that. Did you get enough sleep the night before?”
Restating her comment or asking questions are simple ways to listen actively when talking with your girl.
Give some, get some.
When talking to a girl, be sure to give her quality information about yourself. She will tell you numerous things about herself – what she likes and dislikes; her hopes and dreams. So, it’s just as important to hear what she says and remember it as it is to tell her like information about you.
Often people who are compatible will say they can talk to each other about anything. You don’t have to have every characteristic in common, but if you can communicate about those things equally, your lady will be very impressed.
Learning to share when talking will also help you to impress a girl. Be sure to look in her eyes and be silent when she’s talking so that you can listen actively. But, at the same time don’t just remain silent, and expect her to carry the entire conversation alone. When she gets quiet, and it’s not a pause to think, it’s your turn to keep the communication going.
If talking intently with a girl is new to you, prepare some talking points before seeing her. You can plan to ask her about school, work, family, friends or any of her hobbies. You can talk with her about anything as long as you work to keep the lines of communication open and flowing.
You can impress a girl by talking easily by practicing these basic conversation skills. Being a successful conversationalist will keep her interested in you, and open up the possibilities for a promising and solid relationship. These are exactly how to talk to girls.